Wednesday, July 22, 2026
The Importance of Good Balance & Core Strength in Dogs
Wednesday, July 15, 2026
Big Dogs, Small Dogs & Every Dog In Between
Last week, a client asked me if I would write a reference letter for her dog. At first, I thought she was teasing me, but then I realized how serious she was. She was moving into a new condominium and the HOA required reference letters from two "pet professionals" for each pet belonging to a new, prospective resident. Wow! She'd gotten a letter from her veterinarian and was hoping I'd write one for her sweet dog too. I had interacted with her dog on numerous occasions in classes and seminars over the years, so I didn't hesitate to write a glowing recommendation for her pup. He's house-trained, sociable with people and other animals, doesn't bark excessively, and he walks nicely on a leash. I told her she should include a copy of his CGC, Canine Good Citizen certificate, with the reference letters as well. As she and I talked more about this reference request, some other interesting, and a bit disturbing, pet-related policies came to light that I thought I'd share with you.
She told me that she'd been turned away from several upscale apartment homes, townhomes, and another condominium complex because her dog weighed over 20 pounds. This one really irritated me. First of all, do you want to know how many under 20 pound dogs I know whose owners have never completely house-trained them? Meaning, they still have regular accidents in the house. If you are concerned about property damage and that's why you are discriminating against big dogs, you really need to examine the amount of damage urine and feces can do to flooring! Plus, some of the barkiest, least sociable dogs I know are the under 20 pounds set. Many of us jokingly refer to this as the dogs having a "Napoleon complex," but it's true. In my opinion, apartment managers, property managers, and landlords should consider each pet on an individual basis. Meet with the pet owner and the pet and then decide based on the behavior you see, not on some preconceived notion about them. If it's a dog, go ahead and require a CGC certificate be submitted, or proof of obedience class attendance. Definitely ask for references, but meet the pets yourself. Sure, it takes a bit more time, but just have the pet come with the prospective tenant to the walk through interview.
Now, I'm sure, I'm going to get a message from someone who reads my blog and actually is a property manager or landlord telling me that they aren't qualified to judge a pet's behavior and frankly, that's a cop-out. Sure, you may not be a pet professional, but you know what a well-mannered dog looks like. Well-behaved dogs come in all shapes, sizes, and breeds. Not all Rottweilers are menaces, not all German Shepherds are barky, and not all Terriers are destructive. Sure, some of them are, but you can figure this out when you meet them. And you should definitely meet those under 20 pounds dogs in person before having their human sign on the dotted line. Just watch your ankles!
In all seriousness: Dogs of any size can have behavior problems. Whether a dog (or cat) has a behavior problem will depend much more on their genetics and upbringing than on their physical size or shape. I would think the most important factors for property managers should be the sociability of the pet, whether they are house-trained, whether they are destructive, how loud are they, and can they be walked in common areas without issue. I also think it's wise to have the new resident sign off that they will pick up behind their dogs when toileting outside in common areas, and have a consequence such as a fine for those dog owners who don't do it. It's only fair!
We all know (or should know) that property managers cannot discriminate against a pet owner who has a legitimate service animal or emotional support animal seeking housing, regardless of the size of the animal. And it is absolutely okay to ask what service the animal provides the owner and ask for proof of training and certification for those with emotional support animals.
Story time! Years ago, I was looking for a small house to move into near the beach in San Diego. I had a medium-sized dog at that time (Shadow weighed 43 pounds), as well as my completely indoor cat, Katmandu. None of the places I'd seen listed allowed dogs, or if they did, once again, the dogs had to be small in size. So, what did I do? I scheduled a walk through at a house I was really interested in and I brought my dog and my cat with me. As I approached the house, the landlord was standing on the porch. I came up the walkway, dog on a leash at my side, cat on a leash and draped around my neck. I asked Shadow to sit and stay and asked if we could take a look inside? He said sure, though he was clearly still trying to figure out if the cat was real! As we entered the house, Shadow remained calmly on the porch in her sit/stay. By the time we'd gotten to the kitchen, the landlord indicated that he thought that she should come inside too. I called her and she calmly walked into the house and sat next to me, tail wagging. He asked if he could pet her and I told her to go say hi, which she happily did. No jumping up, no exuberance, no problem. He then asked if he could meet the cat! I put Katmandu on the ground and he sat there on leash, waiting to be called over. When the landlord bent down, Katmandu approached him, rubbing against his legs and trying to bump his head on the guy's hand. He'd never seen such well-behaved animals, he told me. He also told me I put his own pets to shame! Needless to say, we got the place AND when we moved out two years later, he offered to write me a tenant reference letter if I ever needed one in the future. I'm pretty sure that going forward with that rental property, he knew to judge the pets and their owners by their behavior, not by the size of the animals on paper.
As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.
Wednesday, July 8, 2026
The 4th of July: A Postscript
Wednesday, July 1, 2026
Hello My Name Is...
Did you start singing when you read the title of this week's blog post? When I was thinking about this week's blog topic, that song popped into my head and then it just stuck there!
When you are naming your dog, there are a couple of good rules to keep in mind. Two syllable names are often the best choice as they allow you, the human, to change the pitch of your voice when addressing your dog, which can help grab your dog's attention and let them know your intent. What type of inflection you use lets your dog know if you are happy with them, displeased, etc. While a lot of dog owners will opt for one syllable names, these often become two syllable nicknames in the long run because, again, two syllable names allow for those pitch changes that one syllable names do not. So, what are one syllable names good for? They are good for grabbing attention in situations where there are a lot of distractions. And for those folks choosing longer, multi-syllable names for their dogs, you just need to know that you will likely be shortening said name or going with a nickname anyway. And you know what? Dogs are good with that too! Most of us use nicknames for our dogs and it doesn't confuse them or keep them from responding. It's just one more amazing attribute of dogs.
Last week, I heard from a new puppy owner who was concerned that perhaps his name choice for the new dog would be confusing given how the name sounded like the word, "no." I once had a client whose dog came with the name "Jess" and she had similar concerns since Jess sounds like "yes." The bottom line? It really doesn't matter as dogs use context with our verbal cues; they use our body language, including facial expressions, as much as, if not more than, the actual words we say. So, while the name "Beau" sounds like "no," for example, your dog isn't going to get confused if you give them a stern "NO!" I will say, however, that if you want to avoid sounding like Dr. Seuss when talking to your dog, you might want to steer clear of the one syllable names that sound a lot like commands you might give your dog. "Hey! Kit Sit," being a good example!
I think the bigger take home message with this one is that you really want to think more about how you use "no" and "yes." Overuse of either can dilute the value. Plus, you also run the risk of not giving your dog enough context to understand what they did that you liked or didn't like. The word "no" in and of itself lacks information. Sure, if you yell it at your dog, they're likely to stop what they are doing momentarily, but truthfully? You could yell "Rot!" and they'd stop momentarily for that as well, because they'd be responding to the tone of your voice more so than the word itself. So, rather than saying "No!" tell your dog what they should be doing instead. For example, if your puppy has grabbed your new running shoe, don't just tell her "NO!" Instead, tell her to "drop it!" and then trade her your shoe for a toy or bone instead. Basically, don't chew my shoes, chew on your own stuff. I prefer "leave it!" and "drop it" to a generic "no" every time. Now, if your dog bolts the front door and is heading for a busy street, then definitely yell "NO!" If you don't overuse that word, they will absolutely stop dead in their tracks, just long enough for you to collect them before they head into harm's way.
I love the process of coming up with names for my dogs. I like to think about their personality traits and about my goals or aspirations for them. I always joke that people who name their pets after questionably behaved characters in literature or movies often end up with adult animals who live up to their names. Any of you remember the movie, "Gremlins?" The cute, little creature in that movie was named "Gizmo." Funny thing though: If you got him wet, exposed him to bright lights, or fed him after midnight, he changed into something less than cute and cuddly, wreaking havoc and leaving destruction in his wake. I had a client who named her Shih Tzu puppy "Gizmo" because he looked just like the sweet movie character. Funny thing though. When he tore up her couch, managed to rip down the curtains, and took a chunk out of an antique table leg, he resembled a gremlin more than she would have liked!
Share the story of how your dog got their name, and as always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.



