Wednesday, December 29, 2021
Wednesday, December 22, 2021
I love the holidays. I love the smell of a fresh Christmas tree, the aroma of my cranberry kitchen candle burning, sugar cookies fresh from the oven, and having everyone home for Christmas. What I don't love is the stress! Ozzie has always been my mirror, reflecting back at me my moods, feelings, and frustrations. He feels the holiday stress as much as I do. Because of this, I make a concerted effort to work on my stress and his through mindful activities together. If you are feeling a bit overwhelmed as well, maybe these tips could help you too!
1. Take a walk. Ozzie and I walk every day, rain or shine. Our holiday season walks are a necessity for our sanity. We love to walk really early in the morning when there's hardly anyone else out there. We look at the sky together, Ozzie sniffs and stalks squirrels, and he will bump me with his head and grin whenever he feels particularly light-hearted. I treasure our morning walks; and if Desi is up for walking in the morning too, having him along just adds to our pleasure.
2. Stop Moving. This is a hard one for me, but I make sure to do it anyway. I just stop, sit down on the floor or a dog bed, and do absolutely nothing except pet a dog. No phone, no TV, not even a book. Just a girl and a couple of collies breathing in and out.
3. Nourish your body. We love apples. I'll slice an apple and share it with Ozzie and he'll happily crunch away on it, waiting for more. His crunching sounds make me smile. Apples are good for us both in more ways than one.
4. Treat yourself. Anyone who knows me, knows I love to bake. I find it stress-reducing, and having that delicious reward at the end is gratifying. I especially like to bake things that can be shared with Ozzie and Desi.
5. Prioritize. This is really hard for me, but it's something easily learned from a dog. They don't worry about what others think of them for taking a nap, taking a break, playing, or just doing nothing. Prioritize what really needs to happen and what can wait or be skipped altogether.
6. Soothe your soul. Whether it's music, a massage, a soak in a hot tub, or all three, schedule some daily relaxation for yourself. While you're at it, treat your pets to some T-Touch so that their sore muscles, aches, and pains can find some much needed relief on these cold, winter days too.
Finally, it's okay to feel grumpy, grouchy, and less than festive. And if it's your dog who is feeling a bit like the Grinch, that's okay too. Give them the space they need to recharge; put them in their crate with a frozen Kong, or in another room with a bully stick or bone to chew on. A little peace and quiet (and something hard to gnaw on!) will have them back to their usual selves in no time. And remember, not every human or animal is an extrovert. Give those introverts space and an out when they need it.
I hope all of you have a wonderful holiday, one that serves you and brings you joy. As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me. I'm over here, sitting on a dog bed, sharing a snack with a couple of collies who stayed on Santa's good list all year long!
Wednesday, December 15, 2021
I met with a client this week who has been struggling with her dog for a couple of months. His body is big and he's passed his first birthday, but he still behaves like a puppy. He has accidents in the house; he chews anything and everything (no piece of furniture is safe); he doesn't heed signals from her other dogs when they shun his exuberant behavior; he's very needy; and he still needs enforced nap times. Basically, he's a 120 lb puppy and his owner is quite frustrated and downright concerned. Her veterinarian told her that she doesn't discipline the dog enough; her neighbor told her the dog needed more training; and her family has told her that the dog isn't welcome at family events until she can get better control of him.
When I observed this dog, here's what I saw immediately: A puppy. Not an adolescent dog. Not an adult dog, but a puppy. A BIG puppy, but a puppy nonetheless. His behavior was consistent with what you would expect to see in a 6-8 month old puppy, not a dog who had just celebrated his first birthday. He wasn't being defiant when he pulled on the leash, he was excited to explore! He wasn't being defiant when he chewed on the furniture, he still needs direction to appropriate chewing outlets and boundaries to help him make the right choices. The hardest thing is going to be helping this big puppy move past his fears and uncertainty when out in public so that it's safe for his owner to walk him (when he gets scared or spooked, he wants to bolt for home).
Dogs, just like people, can experience developmental delays. Those delays can be genetic in origin, or they can be due to something that happened during the dam's pregnancy, during birth, etc. Some puppies get stepped on or laid on, and some are born as singletons or the runt of their litter. All of these scenarios could result in a puppy, and thus a dog, with developmental delays.
If your dog has developmental delays, you will need to be more patient with her. She may take longer to get through puppyhood, experiencing longer or more frequent fear stages, having accidents in the house more often, and seemingly ending up over threshold or being more reactive than other puppies or dogs her age. Thus, while most people report their puppies, regardless of breed, being completely housetrained by the time they are 10-11 months old, a puppy with developmental delays may be 18 months old before reaching that milestone. And while most puppies go through four fear stages in their first year, a pup with developmental delays may seem to be stuck in a fear stage for weeks to months at a time. It is also true that while most gangly, loose-limbed puppies become sleek, well-coordinated adolescent dogs, those with developmental delays may seem off balance or uncoordinated a bit longer. One caveat to all of this, however, is that you can't just assume that an adolescent dog who is still having house training accidents, or is fearful, or seems to trip over her own feet has developmental delays. Your first step always is to visit your veterinarian and rule out the other, medical causes for these behaviors before assuming that a developmental delay is the culprit.
So, back to my client. She's been to see her veterinarian several times to rule out medical issues because she was sure her dog must have had a bladder infection given the number of accidents the dog was having! Nope, the dog is perfectly healthy, just really a 6 or 7 month old puppy living inside the body of a 1 year old, young adult dog. So, here's what we are going to do to ease my client's anxiety and help her dog thrive and mature to the best of his abilities:
Set and maintain clear boundaries: While my client had crate trained her dog as a puppy, she'd quit using it once she thought he was an adult and wouldn't need it anymore. We are bringing back the crate for nap times, and enforcing those nap times, to make sure this dog is well-rested. We are also introducing an x-pen to confine the dog when he's awake but can't be supervised. That way, he can't chew the furniture or constantly pounce on her senior dogs for attention.
Adhere to a predictable schedule: Having a set schedule that the dog can predict and that the owner can stick to will be key. A lot of anxiety for dogs comes from not knowing what will happen next, or thinking it's time for something to happen, and then it doesn't. For dogs with developmental delays, willy-nilly schedules, missed walks, etc. are not just frustrating, they are anxiety-provoking and stressful.
Increase both the mental and physical exercise the dog receives daily: Two walks a day with a focus on sniffing and exploring are a must. Simple, interactive toys like snuffle mats and food dispensing balls to build brain connections are also necessary. The third component we are adding in are balance and coordination boosters, which will ultimately increase the dog's confidence. Using wobble boards, hula hoops, and bosu balls, this dog will learn to balance his big body, lift himself a few inches off of the ground, etc., thus making him able to step off of a curb without tripping over his big feet.
Increasing the amount of time the dog is on leash: We are going to keep my client's dog on leash more; he can drag it around the house so that someone can step on it, if need be, to keep him from jumping up. He can also be walked on leash inside the house to increase his confidence with being on leash and help him to learn not to pull. There is no hard and fast rule that says walks on leash need to be outdoors. Leash walks can be done anywhere, inside the house, in your yard, in your garage, etc. Anywhere you have space to walk with your dog is an opportunity to work on leash etiquette.
Clear communication: Using hand signals and verbal markers, my client will make a bigger effort to connect with her dog. He watches her all the time, waiting for feedback, and now she's going to make a conscientious effort to give it to him. She's going to let him know when he's having success by saying “Yes!” and doling out treats and use redirection and time outs for when he invariably makes mistakes. She's going to learn t-touch so that she can use handling and massage as a way to calm her dog and reinforce their bond.
We all learn differently and at different paces. Some people find math easy, for example, and others think of math as a foreign language that they just can't figure out. Dogs are just like us in that regard; some find learning to walk on a leash to be very easy, while others find it quite challenging and anxiety provoking. There's one thing we can all agree on: The world of dogs and dog owners has plenty of room for all types of abilities and aptitudes.
As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.
Wednesday, December 8, 2021
I received so many requests for another set of "five minute training exercises" from followers after last week's blog post! I'm really pleased that you enjoyed these easy to do exercises with big behavioral payoffs for your dogs, so here are five more exercises you can do for five minutes each day:
1. Wait before going out the door or jumping out of the car; Make sure your dog understands stay before you teach them to wait. Stay is a permanent command, meaning you will always go back to your dog and release them from their stay. For wait, your dog can be told when it is safe for them to proceed, without you returning to them to do so. For example, have your dog sit on leash at the front door and stand on the leash. Tell them to "wait," and open your door. If they try to bolt out the door, they won't get far because you are standing on the leash! Say something like "Uh oh!" or "Nuh uh!" and bring them back, have them sit, tell them wait, and try again. Continue to do this until your dog will sit and wait at the door. Once they will do this reliably, then you will say something like "Now we go!" or "The coast is clear!" and head out the door with a calmer dog. For the car, have them in their car harness or crate for rides. When you stop the car and intend to let them out, don't allow them to bolt from the car. Again, tell them "wait," as you unhook the harness or open the crate door. Repeat the wait command if you have to do so. Then, hook on your leash and tell them "Now we go!" or "The coast is clear!" as they exit your vehicle. Never let your dog exit the car without being on leash as they could be distracted by a cat, squirrel, passerby, etc. and exit your car, cross the street, or run into traffic versus into your house or yard as you intended.
2. Take treats nicely: Do not teach your dog the gentle or easy command for this one. Putting taking treats nicely onto a command implies that there is a time or place where they won't have to take treats nicely and that's simply not the case! Your dog should always take a treat nicely, when offered. Instead, set them up to succeed every time by shaping the behavior you want around food. Hold a low value treat (kibble works well for this) in a closed fist and hold your fist out in front of your dog. She'll be able to smell the food and will bang on your hand with her nose, teeth, lips, etc. None of these behaviors will get you to release the kibble. When your dog gently nuzzles or licks at your hand, flip your hand open so she can take the kibble from the palm of your hand. Repeat this over and over with kibble until your dog simply approaches that closed fist and sits in front of you waiting for your hand to flip over and the kibble to magically appear in the palm of your hand. Once you can do this with kibble, repeat the exercise with low value treats, high value treats, and desirable "people" food like cheese, meat, etc. Once your dog is proficient at automatically taking treats gently from you, start adding in other people to your exercises to ensure that they always take treats nicely, regardless of who is offering them.
3. Stop grabbing hands, clothing, or the leash: This is an exercise in self control. Many dogs get so excited about going out for a walk that they start grabbing anything that they can get their mouths on, including us! Your first step will be to decrease the value that the leash inherently has for them. This means attaching an old leash to your dog's harness or collar (one that you really don't care if it gets dirty or destroyed!) and letting them drag it around while you are home doing other things. Basically, you want the leash being attached to their collar or harness to no longer be a thrill. Periodically pick up the leash your dog is dragging around as this used to signal to them that a walk or trip outside was going to happen. Now, when you pick up the leash, ask them for another behavior (sit, touch, watch me, shake, etc.), one that doesn't require them to open their mouths is the key. When they do this calm behavior, reward with a "yes!" and a treat from your pocket. Continue picking up the leash and marking a calm behavior throughout your training sessions. Once your dog can do this easily, you are ready to apply this same routine at the front door and on your walk. During the walk, keep your dog under threshold for grabbing and mouthing by redirecting them to "go sniff!" and even dropping treats on the ground for them to find. You can also redirect to a toy or bully stick you carry in your pocket, but mostly you want to be shaping calm behaviors on leash and keeping your dog from getting over-stimulated. If your dog still grabs your hand, your clothing, or the leash, stop dead in your tracks, drop the leash and stand on it, while ignoring your dog. Don't give them enough leash to jump on you, but just enough to stand or sit. They may get frustrated with this, but they won't be able to reward themselves with the jumping, grabbing, etc. When they settle down, pick up the leash, ask for a calm behavior like sit, touch, watch me, etc., before you begin walking again. Repeat as much as you need to for them to stay focused on the walk and not on grabbing you and the leash!
4. Stay off of the furniture: While some of us may be okay with our dogs being on the furniture, for others, the arrival of guests for the holidays, or the addition of new furniture, means dogs need to learn to stay on the floor. Obviously, it's easier to just never let them up there in the first place than to switch gears and change your mind, but it is possible. Just remember that to a dog, your old couch looks just like the new one, so they aren't going to figure out that they can't get up there anymore unless you help them to understand. Do make sure that you have dog beds, dog mats, or your dog's crate nearby so that you can tell you your dog where they are supposed to be rather than on the furniture. When you are first teaching this, do not leave them unsupervised in the room with the off limits furniture; close the door to the room, block it off with a baby gate, or confine your dog when you aren't home to help them make good choices. Now, it's time to make staying off the the furniture fun! Put yummy treats in your pocket and plop down on the couch yourself. When your dog approaches you, and before they try to jump up on the couch, tell them "go to your bed/mat!" and then toss a treat in that direction. Once they are there, tell them to stay. If they stay, toss them another treat. If they get up and come toward the couch, say "Nuh uh!' and take them back to their bed/mat and tell them to stay. If they stay, toss another treat. Repeat this exercise until your dog understands that staying off of the couch is way more rewarding than getting up there. A side note: this only works if everyone in the house keeps the dog off of the furniture. And, if your couch or chair is positioned in such a way that it is located in the exact spot that gives your dog the best view of the street, side walk, etc., then you will need to realize that keeping them off of that piece of furniture will be more challenging; you might even want to move it and put the dog's bed or mat there instead. Finally, if you are looking for a happy medium, teach your dog to lay on a machine washable blanket located on one spot on your sofa or chair. That way, they can still be there with you (and look our the window!) without soiling the whole piece of furniture. Again, you will still want to do the exercises outlined above to ensure that they stay on their blanket and don't wander to the unprotected spots on the couch.
5. Don't paw people for attention: Dogs paw to get our attention and will continue to paw as long as this behavior is successful. Remember, dogs just want attention, so negative or positive, if they get your attention for pawing you, then they've been successful! When your dog approaches you, and before they go to paw you, ask for something that is counter to pawing (lay down, for example). When they do what you asked, offer them a treat. If they paw you, turn your body away from them, or get up and walk away. When you sit down again, ask for the down and say "stay." Once again, if they paw, turn away or move away. Only give them attention for NOT pawing you; bringing a toy, is fine, just no barking, whining, or pawing for attention. Those behaviors will get them shunned or ignored. It is critical that everyone in the house resist giving the dog attention for pawing; if one person rewards them, the behavior will persist.
Now you have a total of ten exercises that you can do in 5 minutes or less everyday to help your dogs be on their best behavior! As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior (or have suggestions for topics you'd like me to cover in my blog posts!), you know where to find me.
Wednesday, December 1, 2021
1. I want my dog to stop jumping on people. Excellent! Put your dog on leash anytime you will encounter other people, whether it's at the front door, out on walks, or around your house Stand on your dog's leash so that they can only sit or stand in place when approached and then have people approach your dog. Start with quiet people approaching and work up to giggly, bouncy, squealy people approaching your dog. Yes, you can practice this! For 5 minutes every day, set your dog up with the leash on to do these controlled greetings. Have treats and reward your dog for sitting or standing in place (wiggling is okay!) for greetings. Over time, you will challenge your dog more by loosening the leash and moving up to no leash at all for greetings in and around your house.
Wednesday, November 24, 2021
I had two different people message me about a video I posted last week with a discussion about teaching dogs leave it and drop it around real food in the kitchen. Just in case you didn't see the video, here's a link to it for reference: https://www.facebook.com/1193916201/videos/452575609815209/
Basically, one of the people who reached out is a veterinarian that I've known for years. She wanted me to know that she thought it was brave that I put myself and my dogs out there for people to "judge." I told her that's not it at all! I just have my own dogs' permission to use them to teach other people (they give their permission by participating freely; if they walk away, that's fine!); I don't use my clients' dogs for these teaching videos because I want them to feel safe and protected by practitioner/client privilege. I do have a few clients who love to see their pets featured in my posts and blogs and I am grateful for their generosity. And the purpose of these training videos is not to demonstrate how "perfect my dogs are." They are, in fact, flawed individuals just like their owner/handler, namely, me. We all make mistakes and I have always felt that mistakes are learning opportunities. So, if someone watching one of these training videos wants to say my videography skills need work, that's fine. Or, if they want to point out that my dog barked while we were working or was slow to comply, so be it. Again, I don't post the videos to show off; I post them to educate, entertain, and generate conversation about dogs and dog behavior. That's it! The other person who reached out to me about my video wanted to tell me that it "wasn't fair to do these videos" because my dogs were perfect. I cracked up at this! Again, they aren't perfect and we are all works in progress around here. I don't set perfection as a goal for myself , my family members, or my dogs. We are all just doing our best. But I did kind of appreciate that she thought Ozzie was perfect at leave it and drop it! We worked hard on that from the time he was a puppy. I think he did a great job demonstrating these behaviors and he wasn't a bit put off by the camera and tripod (sometimes he is and those are videos you never see!).
So why am I telling you all this? Because I want you to know that the rewards and satisfaction come from putting in the effort to work with your dogs, not from a perfect outcome. Sometimes your training sessions will go smashingly well and other times you will crash and burn. That's how it is with behavior change; steps forward and steps backward. And if you are working on behavior change with an anxious dog, there WILL be setbacks as they learn alternate behaviors that don't reinforce their anxiety. That's okay. Again, the saying is "nobody's perfect." Make it your mantra. Put in the effort. Give it your best. Reward your dogs for trying. Move on. There will be another day to train. Another teaching moment. Another opportunity to improve. Finally, don't compare where you are in your training journey with your dog to where someone else is. Their dog and their journey are different from yours. Even if you have the same breed of dog, related dogs, etc. Every dog is an individual and it isn't a reflection on you or your training skills if you need more time to work on something or you seek help for your dog.
I truly hope you enjoy these blog posts and the training videos and hints I share online. I am always grateful for your comments and feedback. I hope that they make you think, make you laugh, and make you smile. I hope that they bring you closer to your own dogs. I hope they make you appreciate the training journeys of other people and their dogs. And I truly hope you enjoy seeing my collies as much as I enjoy sharing them.
Have a wonderful Thanksgiving. As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.
Wednesday, November 17, 2021
It's a common complaint, "my dog won't listen to me when we are out in public!" Seems that many dogs get out of the house and their training goes out the window, so to speak. There's even a funny video prompt making the rounds on social media where it states "show me your dog doesn't listen without telling me your dog doesn't listen." There are a million videos of dogs completely ignoring their owners out on walks! While the videos are entertaining, this is a real problem and one that shouldn't be ignored. Dogs who don't listen out in public aren't just embarrassing; they could put themselves and their owners at risk.
Whenever someone tells me that their dog doesn't listen out in public, my first question to ask is how well they listen at home; do they come when they are called 100% of the time? 80%? 50%? Do they sit, lay down, leave it, and stay both with AND without food, or are they bribing their dogs to comply and the absence of food means the dogs ignores them? You've heard me say it many times before: we all like to get paid, but an intermittent reinforcement schedule means that your dog is willing and eager to do what you'd like them to do because they know you will be rewarding them at some point in time. For many dog owners, the truth of the matter is this: yes, their dogs are better at listening when they are inside the house and there aren't any distractions, but the bottom line is that even there (and in their backyard), the dog is easily distracted and less than likely to comply with the requested behavior. Taking this one step further; why are some dogs more likely to do what they are asked than others? Does breed or age make a difference?
Yes, breed *can* make a difference. For example, a Beagle is a scent hound, so if they are out and about and catch an amazing scent, they may pay less attention to you in that moment, but that doesn't mean that Beagles cannot be good listeners. And we all know that puppies, in general, are eager to please, while adolescent dogs often thumb their noses at training exercises, particularly if they feel that the exercises are boring, repetitive, or unnecessary. So, this brings us to our first important point: know your dog. What were they bred for? Were they bred to herd sheep with a shepherd, or were they bred to keep the laps of monks warm in cold weather? And while you most certainly want to work with your puppy every day on their basic obedience commands, you won't want to just keep up that same routine with your adolescent dog. You will want to move on to tricks and other activities that utilize those important, basic skills they have, but in novel ways that hold their attention and challenge their brains.
The next key point: context proofing. It isn't good enough that your dog sits for you at home when you feed him dinner. He must sit in other contexts as well, and include contexts where an immediate food reward isn't forthcoming. So, sit at the front door when it's opening; sit in the car and wait to get out; sit while you use the ATM machine; and sit patiently while you drink coffee in an outdoor restaurant or stop on the street to talk to a neighbor. Initially, you SHOULD use treats to reinforce all of those sits in different contexts, but once your dog can do it reliably, move on to an intermittent reinforcement schedule and use praise and physical affection to reinforce in between.
Here's a big one: ramp it up. Work with your dog around a lot of distractions. Before you practice coming when called off leash inside the dog park, practice coming when called OUTSIDE OF THE DOG PARK. I mean this quite literally, outside of the dog park. Put your dog onto a 15-30 foot long leash and let them run off and sniff the area outside the dog park. Call them back to you (definitely have yummy snacks ready!) and if they don't come right away, give that long line a tug and try to get their attention focused on you again. Your rule of thumb should be "I will not let my dog off leash anywhere until I am certain that she will come back to me, even with distractions." If your goal is to hike off leash with your dog, then you must practice good hiking behavior ON leash first. There will be birds and rabbits and squirrels (and other off leash dogs!) on those hiking trails too. You need to be certain your dog will leave those things alone if you tell them to leave it and call them your way. Practice does make perfect on this.
Do keep your sessions short and positive. While training classes are often an hour in length, frequent short session (less than 10 minutes, and 3-5 minutes is ideal) will help your dog to understand what you want, learn to do it across situations, while not getting bored or overwhelmed. Build sniffing and exploring into the breaks between your training sessions. Sniffing and exploring is rewarding in and of itself, no food rewards required! If you find yourself getting frustrated, your dog will know this. Give yourself a time out if you find yourself yelling at your dog, yanking them by their collar or leash, or lashing out. You are a team and there's no place for any of that on a good, reliable team.
One last thing: If you have an anxious dog (she's reactive to other dogs, she's afraid of noises, scared of new people, etc.), then context proofing will take longer and you may never get to the point where being off leash is safe. Set realistic goals for your anxious dog; you can definitely work with her to the point that they two of you can have nice, loose leash walks together where she listens for your cues as to how to behave.
And it goes without saying: while someone with a small, distracted, disobedient dog can simply laugh and pick their dog up when he won't sit at the curb, that isn't an option for those of us with medium and large dogs. We all need to work with our dogs (and with each other) to get to the point where they are safe in public spaces.
As always, if you have questions about your dog's behavior, you know where to find me.
Wednesday, November 10, 2021
I met with a client last weekend who has an adolescent male dog. He is a large breed dog with growth plate issues, so she's trying to hold off neutering him until he's between 2 and 3 years old. While she was worried that she might have issues with him getting along with other male dogs, that's not a problem at all. He plays well with other male dogs just fine. She was then concerned that he might try to mount all the female dogs at daycare. Well, the daycare accommodated him and now the only females in his play group are spayed and they correct him appropriately if he tries to mount them. So what's giving her the biggest headache at the moment? Marking! This guy marks the stairwell in her house, the patio furniture, and the tires on her car! There aren't any other animals in her house, so she's at her wit's end trying to figure out why he is now marking so frequently. This is actually a fairly common problem, so let's take a good look at marking behavior.
All dogs, both male and female, spayed/neutered or intact, may engage in marking behavior. Most people tend to think of marking as a strictly male behavior (a dog lifting it's leg), but that isn't the case. Any dog may mark; urinating to leave a scent mark is part of normal dog communication. The triggers for marking are most often new or novel smells, another dog's urine, etc. Often upright objects like posts, poles, trees, etc. are favorite places to mark. Some dogs are triggered to mark by being in a new place; I've had several clients report their dogs marking in the new homes they've moved into. Others are triggered by the presence of new objects. For example, years ago I had a client who was so excited to get all new living room furniture only to discover her male dog was marking the new stuff! She was so surprised (and dismayed!) by this as he'd never marked her old furniture. I've been in homes where the dogs mark stereo speakers, pole lamps, and coat racks! Usually, if you move to a new place or add new furniture to your home, you can simply supervise your dog's access to these areas until they get comfortable with them and no longer feel the need to mark. You can do this by spending time with your dog in each new space (or near the new objects), feeding them there, etc. When you can't watch them, return them to a space they won't mark such as their crate, pen, or confined to your kitchen. As your dog's comfort level increases, you can expand where they can go when unsupervised, but never leave them alone in an area where they've previously marked until you are certain they are past the behavior. I say this because many dogs mark because they are anxious. They are experiencing stress and are responding to the influx in hormones by marking, thus creating spaces they can comfortably claim as their own. So, while a normal intact male dog might be triggered to mark by the presence of an intact female dog on his home turf (a common problem in dog breeders' homes), anxious male dogs may be triggered to mark by other external factors.
Dog owners are frequently told to "just neuter your dog and the problem will be solved," but that's often not the case. While neutering reduces marking in approximately 80% of male dogs, it only eliminates the problem in about 40% of the cases. As mentioned previously, marking occurs in neutered dogs too, as well as female dogs. Again, marking isn't just about hormonal arousal, it's also about anxiety.
Let's get back to my client's dog. This young dog is living in a very busy household. I believe he is experiencing some anxiety, which truly isn't uncommon in adolescent dogs. He gets plenty of exercise and has a lot of social opportunities. While my client hasn't added anything new to her home in terms of furniture or upright items, she does live in a huge home. While her dog is house-trained in the conventional sense (he knows to go outdoors to eliminate), he isn't trustworthy to have free-rein of the whole house unsupervised. I've asked her to go back to restricting him to the downstairs area of her home where the family spends most of their time and where he has never marked. Outdoors, he should be supervised as well so that he can be redirected away from marking the patio furniture or her car tires. She lives near an open space, so it's quite likely that free-roaming animals like skunks, opossums, deer, foxes, squirrels, etc. are moving through the yard and he is marking in response to that. Nonetheless, if she doesn't want to supervise his outside time, she will have to learn to accept him marking outdoor objects. If she continues scrubbing them with soap and water, he will just feel compelled to go back and freshen his marks if he smells other animals in the area again. It's fine for her to interrupt the behavior if she sees him sniffing around the furniture or her car; she can call him away or redirect him to another activity (e.g. go get your ball!).
For some dogs, using an odor neutralizer in the marked area will be enough to deter them from returning, but that's not the case for my client's dog. She tried booby-trapping the stairwell where he was marking, but he just waited until the booby traps were removed and then went back and marked! Now we just don't let him anywhere near the stairwell at all. As a stop-gap measure, she can put a belly band on the dog to prevent marking; belly bands are a fabric device that goes around the dog's abdomen, covering the penis, and thus ensuring that any urine excreted by the dog is absorbed by the fabric band and their belly fur, and not by the object they were trying to mark. A belly band is fine to use when you can't supervise your dog, but leaving one on your dog all the time isn't a good solution. Better to confine them when you can't watch them, make sure they are getting enough mental and physical exercise, and address any issues in anxiety that are contributing to the marking.
If you are faced with a similar issue, here is your action plan:
1. Clean the marked area well with a product designed to actually eliminate urine odor and damage.
2. Block access to the areas your dog was marking when you can't supervise them there. When you are there with them in those areas, use those opportunities to work on behaviors that run counter to marking such as grooming, feeding, training, or playing.
3. Whenever possible, keep the objects your dog most desires for marking out of their "safe spaces." So, for example, if your dog likes to mark unfamiliar shoes in your entryway or your guests' suitcases, keep those visitors' shoes out of reach and put suitcases in closed closets so your dog won't be tempted to mark them.
4. Address and resolve any conflict that could be contributing to your dog's anxiety and leading to marking. For example, if you've brought in a new pet, brought home a new baby, or your elderly aunt just moved in with you, all of these situations could cause conflict and stress for a dog who then responds by marking. Break out the high value treats and reward your dog for getting along with the new family member. For best results, pair all good things with the presence of the new person or pet. DAP plug ins and Adaptil collars may help, and even CBD formulated for dogs may curb the transitional anxiety associated with the upheaval in your home.
5. Tether your dog to you if you can't crate or confine them. Teach them to lay on a mat or rug near you calmly rather than allowing them to explore unsupervised. Give your dog frequent opportunities to get outdoors and appropriately mark to their heart's content.
6. If marking persists despite your best efforts, talk to your veterinarian about anti-anxiety medication.
The one thing you don't want to do is punish your dog for marking. This will only increase the dog's anxiety thus leading to further, often more surreptitious, marking behavior.
As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.
Wednesday, November 3, 2021
One of my clients is super-frustrated with her adolescent, intact male dog. He is great on his daily excursions with the dog walker who takes him off leash with a gaggle of other dogs, where he can run around, play in water, etc. When he is on leash, however, he is a "fur missile," launching at other dogs and dragging his owner down the street. On playdates in the neighborhood? Again, he's great! On a walk in the neighborhood? Not so much. So why is it that he's fine with dogs off leash but not on leash? Why can't he be equally social in both situations? Will neutering change any of this behavior?
I've had many clients notice the behavioral differences exhibited by their dogs when on leash versus off leash; even dogs who are not reacting to other dogs when on leash do seem to be more "hyper aware" when they are on leash versus off. This is actually very normal and easy to explain. Let's look at this from the dog's perspective.
When a dog is on leash, they are by definition tethered to you. This means that they can't get away if a situation goes badly. It also means that they have to protect themselves and you while hindered by that tether. This situation makes many dogs "hyper aware" when on leash walks with their owners when other dogs are out as well. A lot of dogs pull on leash to get to each other as fast as possible to get those sniffy introductions out of the way and determine if all is well. When dogs pull toward one another on leash, however, their bodies aren't in the normal shapes and postures conducive to a successful greeting. When dogs pull they are gasping for air, straining on the leash, with ears often back, lips retracted, and a direct stare in the direction they want to go A lot of dogs will scrabble around with their feet as well, appearing completely out of control. Add in some barking, whining, or yipping, and you have a recipe for disaster when those two leashed dogs explode into each other's space. And, yes, dragging their equally stressed out and anxious owners behind them. This is just one of the many reasons why I don't let my dogs greet other dogs while on leash; off leash playdates in a yard, under my control, are the way my dogs engage other dogs.
I love that many of you are using daycares and dog walkers for your dogs now that you've headed back to work. This is a wonderful solution to the age old question of "what is my dog going to do all day while I'm at work?" A well-staffed, well-trained daycare provider can ensure that your social dog has an outlet for their enthusiasm and a place to get their exercise while hanging out with other, like-minded dogs. Daycare experiences can mean everything from a traditional daycare that is run like a staffed, off leash dog park, to an in-home daycare provider who keeps just a few dogs at a time daily for exercise and socialization in their own home and yard. For older dogs or dogs who aren't particularly social, daycare can be stressful and overwhelming. These dogs will likely do better with an experienced dog walker for one-on-one excursions and fun outings. Remember that dog sociability is on a spectrum, and not all dogs are extroverts, desiring that constant contact with other dogs. And it is also true that dogs' social needs change as they get older. Your dog may have loved to play at daycare when they were a puppy and adolescent, but as a senior dog, they may find the whole experience very stressful. Daycare providers want your dogs to succeed and be happy; if a staff member tells you that your dog isn't enjoying himself, don't be upset by this. Daycare isn't for every dog and daycare providers need to make sure their areas are safe for all the dogs in their care. And while I'm happy to evaluate your pet and discuss all of this with you, you need to keep in mind that I can't *make* your dog want to go to daycare or enjoy going there if she doesn't. Rather, I will be pointing you toward other solutions as to what they should be doing while you are at work all day.
So, let's circle back around to my client with the intact male dog I was telling you about. He is clearly still enjoying his dog excursions and off leash socializing. Even though he's intact, he is not mounting the other dogs as we've successfully taught him that that behavior earns him a time out away from socializing. Neutering him will definitely help with the marking he does, on occasion, in their house, but it isn't going to make him any less "nutty" on leash when he sees other dogs. That's where the work needs to be done! He thinks that when he sees other dogs, it's play time! We need to teach him that when he's on leash, this is work time. His owners need to stop trying to figure out how to let him safely greet other dogs when on leash, and focus on how to make him a good walking companion. We went for a walk together and I put two leashes on the dog, one attached to a martingale collar and the other attached to a Gentle Leader Head Halter. I had a bag full of very high value treats in my pocket and I'd already let him know that he could have them IF he walked nicely on leash as we started our walk in their yard before heading out into the neighborhood. I was in charge of the leashes as his owner admitted that she was sure she was cuing him to dogs and thus part of the problem. I understood this; she'd been pulled over more than once as her dog tried to yank her toward another leashed dog. We walked for just 10 minutes; this was a training walk, not an exercise walk. I let him sniff and explore with his leashes loose so he felt relaxed. What I did NOT do is tell him when I saw other dogs, gasp when I saw other dogs, tighten up on his leash, ball his leash up in my hand, or step to the side to let other dogs go by. I also didn't hide behind any hedges or cars! We walked. If he started to focus on another dog I'd say his name using an upbeat tone and guide him my way with the two leashes (think about how you might use the reins on a horse!). When he broke his laser focus on that other dog, he received an enthusiastic "Yes!" from me and one of those high value treats. He continued to get high value treats for following along with me and ignoring the other dog. When the other dog was out of sight, no more treats and back to encouraging him to sniff and pee. We passed homes with off leash dogs behind wire fencing who barked and chased us along the fence line and he did great! A few whines and a bit of pulling, but following along with me was much more rewarding. His owner noted that his walks are never this pleasant for them, and that he normally pulls even when there aren't other dogs right there. This is where the two leash system can be really helpful, particularly for big dogs. You feel safer and like you have more control, and thus you are less likely to shorten up on your leash thus cuing your dog to pull in response. Keeping the walk short and adding in those treats really will help. Even a neighbor reinforced this point for my client when he came out on his driveway and said," Wow! He looks so much more relaxed! He's enjoying that walk this morning!" My client thanked him and then sheepishly told me he was the neighbor who came to her rescue with wet wipes and bandages on one of the walks where her dog had pulled her down!
These improvements are just the start. We'll need to walk together a few more times to make sure her dog has got the new routine. My client will need to do the walks with me there so she can build back her own confidence. In the meantime, he will continue to go to daycare to get his exercise and playtime with his dog friends, and even have a few playdates with his dog buddies in their yard. Her walks with him will initially be at off peak times to work on her leash handling and treat delivery. All walks will be short. Over time, we'll build up to walking at peak times when there are lots of dogs out on leash. For now, we'll keep it simple and rewarding for all parties concerned.
As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.
Wednesday, October 27, 2021
While a 2018 survey found that 61% of American households had a dog OR a cat, the researchers also found that 14% of those households had both cats AND dogs, which brings up an important question. Can dogs and cats truly live together harmoniously in a home? This seems to be the question on several pet owners' minds this week, so I think it's time we looked more closely at the topic of living with dogs and cats under the same roof.
I believe the key to successfully living with dogs and cats in the same household is to do sufficient pre-planning to optimize your chances for four-legged harmony. While many pet owners seem to feel that peaceful coexistence is the best that they can hope for, I like to think that if you've done your homework, you may even be able to have dogs and cats who don't just coexist, but get along well together and perhaps even play, groom, etc.
Here are some pointers to keep in mind:
- The ideal situation involves adding a puppy and a kitten to your home at the same time. While this may seem like a lot of work, raising them together right from the start increases the likelihood that they will learn to get along and appreciate one another.
- Take a good look at the breed of dog you are choosing. Some dogs are simply more predatory than others and would thus be more risky around a cat or kitten. And while many feel that you can't have cats in a house with herding dogs, I have several clients who share their homes with felines and herders and the arrangement is blissful. Keep in mind too that for brachycephalic dogs like Pugs, Frenchies, etc. you must be cautious adding an inexperienced cat to your home as one swat with a claw could cause permanent damage to your dog's protruding eyes.
- If you already have an adult cat and you are looking to add a dog, look for a dog who is calm and maybe a bit submissive. And they will ultimately do better together if the experiences your cat has had with dogs previously were positive.
- The opposite is true as well. If you already have an adult dog who seems fairly calm and interested in cats in a non-predatory way, then adding a kitten could work as that kitten would be raised with a tolerant, adult dog companion.
- If you are looking to adopt a cat from a shelter, talk to the staff there. They can tell you which cats are more bold and inquisitive with the dogs in the shelter and which seem the most frightened and overwhelmed by the canids around them.
- When introducing cats to dogs and vice versa, keep your sessions short and safe. This means using really yummy treats (canned chicken, canned salmon, etc. for your feline friends and perhaps steak, hamburger, or cheese for your dog buddies) and ensuring that dogs are leashed, crated, or confined behind a gate or in a pen and the cat can escape by climbing up on something out of the way, or simply moving away from the controlled dog if they become overwhelmed.
- Persevere! Even if the first meeting doesn't go well (the dog barks and tries to chase the cat and/or the cat hisses and runs away from the dog), you'll definitely want to try again. Try adding in extra humans for support, even better treats, and making sure you time the introductions for when both the cat and dog are well-rested and calm to begin with.
Wednesday, October 20, 2021
I had the privilege (and the responsibility!) of helping one of my favorite clients choose her next dog. I was able to see the puppy and his littermates, as well as one of the parent dogs. While the situation this puppy came from was less than optimal, and in fact, I would describe it as an impoverished environment for raising healthy and sound puppies, I did find a "diamond in the rough." One of the puppies, in spite of the chaos and neglect around him, was exceptional; he was most interested in us, but not in a pushy way. He made eye contact and wanted to be held and cuddled. He was purposeful in his movement and attentive to new sounds and the different objects I presented him with. He didn't show fear or apprehension, but was thoughtful in his approach. Most of all, he would walk away from the food bowl to show empathy for a human in need, even though he was clearly hungry. I felt like this puppy knew there was something better for him out there as I scooped him up and walked away with him. Not only did he not look back or whine, he climbed right into my client's car and seemed immediately ready for his next task. We talked all the way home in the car about the conditions this puppy had been living in. Even though my client paid for this purebred puppy, she said he felt like a rescue nonetheless, and I'd have to agree. By definition, rescue means to be saved or removed from a dangerous or distressing situation. That's exactly what we did, we removed this puppy from a distressing situation and brought him into an environment where he will be loved and cared for, and where the environment will be enriching and full of new experiences. So, why am I telling you all of this?
Many of my clients tell me that they want to rescue a dog, or that they have just rescued a dog, or that their dog is a rescue, with the implication being that this dog had been subjected to trauma or abuse in some way. Oftentimes, that dog just came from someplace else that wasn't a breeder's home. Just because a dog came from the shelter or a rescue group doesn't mean that that dog was mistreated or abused. In fact, most of the dogs that go through the shelter or rescue groups are just dogs whose circumstances changed; life got in the way of keeping the dog in its original home. A lot of people get a dog with the best of intentions and then realize they are ill-prepared for the day-to-day of dog ownership. Or maybe the dog had a health or behavioral problem that they original owner couldn't afford to treat. This means the dog transitioned to a rescue, but wasn't mistreated in any way. I love this quote (not sure who said it originally as it always seems to be attributed to "anonymous"): "Rescue does not mean damaged. Rather, it means they've been let down by humans."
And because the word "rescue" is so emotionally charged, and often used inappropriately, I like to encourage prospective dog owners to talk about adopting a dog, rather than rescuing a dog. Adoption implies opening your home to the care and keeping of another individual, without implying that that individual is somehow "less than ideal." And, of course, you can adopt a dog from a shelter, a rescue group, or a breeder, your home, your choice!
A lot of thought goes into adopting a new dog, whether that dog is a puppy, adolescent, adult or senior, and whether they come from a shelter, rescue group, or breeder. It's a lot of responsibility and (hopefully) will be done for the life of that dog. The reality, however, is that most dogs live in three different "homes" during their lifetime. That actually feels to me like it might be a conservative estimate. For example, there is wherever the dog is born (home #1), then maybe the litter is taken to the shelter (home #2). If it's a purebred dog, it will likely be picked up by a breed rescue group and fostered for adoption (home #3) before being adopted out (hopefully, their final home, #4). But, again, if circumstances change for the human adopters, that dog could end up back at the shelter or rescue (home #5), before being placed again (home #6). The resiliency of dogs is nothing short of miraculous! Dogs can go from home to home, have their names changed, and their schedules altered, and they adapt and more often than not, they thrive. Dogs really are fascinating, adaptable, creatures.
For now, I'm excited to be on this journey with my client and her new puppy. She's sending me pictures every few days and keeping me updated on his progress. I'm not worried about him one bit; he will thrive in his new home and be a much loved family member for his entire life. I am looking forward to watching him grow and develop. From humble beginnings, I truly believe, he will become a reliable companion dog.
As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.