The Animal Behaviorist Is In
Musings, stories, and advice from a certified animal behaviorist
Wednesday, February 4, 2026
Revisiting Resource Guarding One More Time
Wednesday, January 28, 2026
My Puppy Is Driving Me Crazy!
That's literally the message a new client left in my voicemail. When I called her back, I could hear a puppy yapping away in the background of our call. Apparently he does that anytime she doesn't pay attention to him. He also hates the leash, hates the harness, won't go into his crate willingly, cries if she leaves the room for two minutes, and won't let her bathe him (he stepped in his own poop, then laid in it, requiring a bath which ended up in a bath for the owner too!). She indicated that she didn't even try to trim his nails. She half-jokingly told me she'd leave all future baths, nail trims, etc. to a groomer to "deal with him." Clearly, time for an intervention!
Just because they are puppies doesn't mean that they will automatically comply with everything you want them to do. In fact, puppies often need a bit of extra time to find their own way around anything new, particularly anything that they think might be scary. Even when handed a new toy or new bone, a puppy may gladly take the item, then drop it and sniff it, before picking it up again and trying it out. I can safely say that I've never met a puppy who loved a collar, harness, or leash the first time they were introduced. Henley tried to alligator roll his way out of his harness the first time he actually wore it and acted as if the leash attached to it was cramping his style. Collars, harnesses, and leashes are used for safety reasons by us, but feel unnatural to a puppy; they limit their mobility and exploration. You have to introduce them slowly, pairing with good stuff like food and toys they love. Because collars and harnesses need to be fitted properly, requiring that you take them on and off several times, I like to use a lick mat with either baby food or canned puppy food on it. I use a lick mat that suctions to a metal surface and attach it to my fridge or dishwasher at head height and encourage licking it while I work through the process of fitting the collar or harness to a wiggly puppy. When it comes time for the leash, I always use an old, inexpensive one that I don't mind the puppy chewing on since I let them drag it around the house, attached to their collar or harness, while I supervise by tossing treats for them to find. By letting them drag the leash, they learn that leashes aren't as limiting as they first thought. Once they will freely drag a leash around, I pick it up and follow them wherever they go so there's very little tension on that leash. Then, I move on to using treats to lure them to walk near me indoors long before we move outside. Yes, it's tedious but it allows the puppy to be an active participant in their own training.
The same goes for training a puppy to enjoy their crate. Feed them in it, give them bones there, use puzzles in the crate, and sit by the crate yourself, reading a book, working on your computer, etc. Get your puppy used to a crate with an open door and good things inside before you ever close the door. Build up how long they can be in there with the door closed and you nearby before you try leaving the room. Remember that for most puppies, arriving at your house and joining your family is their first time alone and away from their mother and siblings. Going from sleeping with other familiar dogs to sleeping by yourself is a big step and one that takes a moment for a lot of the puppies I meet.
Baths and nail trims: Those are often rough regardless of the age of your dog. But, again, it's about counter-conditioning and desensitization. Start with getting your puppy used to the sound of running water. Have them in the bathroom with you when the water is running and offer them treats. Build up to having them stand in a dry tub and lick a lick mat. Next, have them stand in a tub with water in it. Now, turn on the water while they are standing in water. You can use a cup to pour water on their body, but try a wash cloth for their face, neck, and bottom. Don't scrub! Gently rub and handle them all over. Same goes for drying them off; dry them off gently with a pre-warmed towel, don't roughly buff them like they are a car! While you may be tempted to do ears and nails on bath day, resist the urge! A bath is enough stimulation for one day for a puppy. Save the ears for a different day and the nails for a separate day from that. I've reviewed how to desensitize your puppy to ear cleaning and nail trimming before in my blog post on cooperative care. Here's a link, just in case you need a refresher:
https://juliebondanimalbehaviorist.blogspot.com/2022/02/teaching-cooperative-care-to-puppies.html
I know it's tempting to just leave the grooming (baths, ear cleaning, and nail trimming) to the professionals, but resist the temptation. Even if you intend to use a groomer for most of your dog's care, you will still need to be able to do some of this at home. Dogs step in things, roll in things, get skunked, get eye infections and ear infections, tear nails, and get food (or vomit!) on their faces. You will need to be able to spot clean your dog at a minimum, and be able to give them a full bath when necessary. Even if you never trim all of their nails yourself, you need to be able to handle their feet if they step on or in something. Do the work. Break the task into smaller steps. Have treats. Take frequent breaks. Don't get frustrated. Ask for help when you need it!
I actually had an in-person appointment with the client mentioned above and her ten week old puppy. He and I hit it off right away so I started working with him around his crate since that was still a hurdle for this owner. I had her walk away and leave us to it so I could see if he'd allow her to leave the room if he had me there. Not only was he fine when she left, he never even glanced her way, which cracked me up. I tossed treats in the crate, opened and closed the door, played with him with a flirt pole I'd brought along, and then put him in the crate with a yak chew I'd also brought to this appointment. I shut the door and told him I'd be right back and I walked out of the room. I immediately came back and he didn't even glance my way, he was quite focused on the chew. I came out to talk to the owner and she was flabbergasted that he wasn't barking or whining! We went back to the crate together and he looked up from the chew, and then went right back at it. I opened the crate door and he came out with the chew in his mouth. I traded a treat for the chew as now we had a reward we could use to get him to readily crate on his own. Now, he'll only get those yummy yak chews when he's in his crate, further reinforcing how great they are to him.
Raising a puppy takes an infinite amount of patience. And truly, puppies aren't for everyone. Remember, however, that any new dog you acquire, regardless of the age of the dog, will require some desensitization and counter-conditioning. How much will depend on what they've already been trained to do and how positive those experiences were for them. If your adult dog is terrified of baths, for example, you may have to do those same exercises above to change his point of view. It's worth it to do so. Honest!
As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.
Wednesday, January 21, 2026
Yes, It IS Good Enough!
Wednesday, January 14, 2026
Why Some Dogs Resist Change
I received an email from one of my favorite clients. She was stumped as to why one of her dogs wasn't readily accepting the new crate she had purchased. She'd upgraded her dogs' crates to a newer style, more durable, and from a company that she'd followed online, waiting patiently for them to release an a-frame style “dog den” that she thought both of her dogs would love. While one dog readily accepted the upgraded crate, the other did not, avoiding the new crate, even with coaxing only going inside for a few moments before wanting to come right back out. She doesn't seem afraid of the new den-style crate, she'll sniff it and explore it, she just won't go in it on her own. My client had removed the door, put the dog's bedding inside, and still her dog wouldn't go in there willingly, let alone sleep inside it. It's been almost a month now and still no headway is being made so she reached out to me for advice.
First and foremost, change is not always easy, for any of us. Even with humans, some of us find change challenging, and for some, even anxiety-provoking. When it comes to change, our dogs and cats are not so different from us. While they might eagerly embrace a new toy or treat, sweeping changes to their food (such as a reduction in amount given), daily routine (fewer walks, for example), or schedule (perhaps fed at a later time) can result in unexpected stress. Necessary changes need to be done gradually, when possible, to minimize resistance on the part of our pets. When it comes to dog beds, crates, or just their general sleeping arrangements, dogs can be pretty particular. But again, not so different from some of us. Here's an example.
For many humans, a stay in a hotel can be exciting and something to look forward to: A trip away from home, a much needed vacation, or just a necessary part of life for someone on the road for work. Adjusting to life in a hotel room, including sleeping in an unfamiliar bed, however, can take some travelers a couple of days/nights to become comfortable enough to sleep as they would at home in their own rooms/beds. The same is true for our dogs.
When we get rid of an old sofa or chair, we may see that as a good thing. The piece of furniture needed replacing as it was worn or maybe it just didn't fit in with our lifestyle, color palette, or evolving personal style anymore. For our pets that used that piece of furniture as a vantage point for watching the outdoors, or as a place to nap during the day or sleep at night, removal of that favored piece of furniture can be traumatizing, even if you replace it with a new sofa or chair in the same location. It doesn't look right, smell right, or feel right to them, much as that hotel bed, while nice, doesn't feel quite right to some travelers. I've known cats and dogs who will no longer sit on a sofa or chair because it's not “their” sofa or chair. Same goes for dog crates.
When we replace a dog crate, even one that is frayed, filthy, has a broken zipper, or no longer fits the dog it is meant to house, that is worrisome to the dog who previously called that crate home. The new crate could be the exact style, color, etc. of the previous one, but it's not going to feel the same to them. And if you, like my client, replace the old crate with a completely differently designed crate, despite being the same size and in the same location as the previous crate, your dog might resist and feel anxious about all of the changes. So, what can you do when you really need to replace your pet's sleeping space?
First off, recognize that it might not go according to plan with a quick acceptance of the new arrangement. Don't get rid of the old crate until you're sure that your dog will accept the new one. If possible, place the old crate, or part of it, inside the new crate. Don't wash the bedding from the old crate, but use it in the new space to increase the familiarity. You can wash it later once they've accepted the new space as home. You can even try placing the old crate facing the new crate and gradually make the old crate less appealing by moving the bedding to the new space and adding a spacer or block to make the old crate less inviting as it seems to be shrinking in size. If your dog still resists the new crate, try feeding them their meals solely in the new crate. Give them puzzles to solve in there as well. Treats should be given only for using the new crate; the longer they remain in the crate, additional rewards can come. All of this should be done without a door on the new accommodations. After they will willingly eat in the new crate, and wait there calmly for treats, you can begin experimenting with having the door on the crate but left open, and then build up to door on the crate and closed.
Finally, some dogs benefit from the use of DAP, dog appeasing pheromones, sprayed inside and around the new crate. These pheromones mimic the smell of a nursing mother dog. A couple of brands to consider are Adaptil (it's been the around the longest and is the best researched) and Zenidog, also a well-researched product. Adaptil has the advantage of being available in a spray as well as a plug-in diffuser, while Zenidog doesn't have the spray, just the diffuser. Diffusers are great if the crate is located in a small space such as the corner of a room. If the crate is more centrally located in a room, or part of a much larger space, diffusers aren't going to be as useful as the spray that can be used directly in the crate's location.
It's also true that if your pet already has anxiety, whether that is separation anxiety, generalized anxiety, noise sensitivities, or some other issue related to anxiety, any changes you make to their world will likely take an adjustment period. How long that adjustment will be really depends on how your pet has coped with previous changes. If it took weeks for them to adapt to the new couch or they resisted a new diet for almost a month when you had to change their food, then it's likely that the new crate will take at least that long if not longer given the importance of that crate to their psychological well-being. We train our dogs to see their crates as their dens and safe-havens, a place to hole up when they are tired, to decompress when they are anxious, and to recharge when they are overwhelmed. If we are changing that space, we can absolutely expect some resistance. Hopefully, by making the change gradual, using the crate in crate method, when possible, utilizing old bedding, feeding and rewarding them there, you can eventually get your dog to accept their new accommodations, albeit begrudgingly at first. Definitely figure in extra time to make that adjustment if your pet has issues in anxiety already. This doesn't mean you should never change anything in your dog's world, or never make changes for an anxious pet. It simply means you need to be aware of how they will perceive those changes. Dogs are territorial, so changing their beds, couches, chairs, or crates takes an adjustment period. The more things stay the same, the easier those transitions can be, meaning if you can replace a worn bed with the exact same style, or replace the dirty, dilapidated crate with the same style, the more likely your dog will accept the change. When you change multiple things all at once, a new crate of a different style, for example, resistance by your dog is to be expected. Time to break out the good treats and start working on ways to make that new crate a positive for them just as the purchase was a positive for you.
As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.





