The Animal Behaviorist Is In
Musings, stories, and advice from a certified animal behaviorist
Wednesday, January 21, 2026
Yes, It IS Good Enough!
Wednesday, January 14, 2026
Why Some Dogs Resist Change
I received an email from one of my favorite clients. She was stumped as to why one of her dogs wasn't readily accepting the new crate she had purchased. She'd upgraded her dogs' crates to a newer style, more durable, and from a company that she'd followed online, waiting patiently for them to release an a-frame style “dog den” that she thought both of her dogs would love. While one dog readily accepted the upgraded crate, the other did not, avoiding the new crate, even with coaxing only going inside for a few moments before wanting to come right back out. She doesn't seem afraid of the new den-style crate, she'll sniff it and explore it, she just won't go in it on her own. My client had removed the door, put the dog's bedding inside, and still her dog wouldn't go in there willingly, let alone sleep inside it. It's been almost a month now and still no headway is being made so she reached out to me for advice.
First and foremost, change is not always easy, for any of us. Even with humans, some of us find change challenging, and for some, even anxiety-provoking. When it comes to change, our dogs and cats are not so different from us. While they might eagerly embrace a new toy or treat, sweeping changes to their food (such as a reduction in amount given), daily routine (fewer walks, for example), or schedule (perhaps fed at a later time) can result in unexpected stress. Necessary changes need to be done gradually, when possible, to minimize resistance on the part of our pets. When it comes to dog beds, crates, or just their general sleeping arrangements, dogs can be pretty particular. But again, not so different from some of us. Here's an example.
For many humans, a stay in a hotel can be exciting and something to look forward to: A trip away from home, a much needed vacation, or just a necessary part of life for someone on the road for work. Adjusting to life in a hotel room, including sleeping in an unfamiliar bed, however, can take some travelers a couple of days/nights to become comfortable enough to sleep as they would at home in their own rooms/beds. The same is true for our dogs.
When we get rid of an old sofa or chair, we may see that as a good thing. The piece of furniture needed replacing as it was worn or maybe it just didn't fit in with our lifestyle, color palette, or evolving personal style anymore. For our pets that used that piece of furniture as a vantage point for watching the outdoors, or as a place to nap during the day or sleep at night, removal of that favored piece of furniture can be traumatizing, even if you replace it with a new sofa or chair in the same location. It doesn't look right, smell right, or feel right to them, much as that hotel bed, while nice, doesn't feel quite right to some travelers. I've known cats and dogs who will no longer sit on a sofa or chair because it's not “their” sofa or chair. Same goes for dog crates.
When we replace a dog crate, even one that is frayed, filthy, has a broken zipper, or no longer fits the dog it is meant to house, that is worrisome to the dog who previously called that crate home. The new crate could be the exact style, color, etc. of the previous one, but it's not going to feel the same to them. And if you, like my client, replace the old crate with a completely differently designed crate, despite being the same size and in the same location as the previous crate, your dog might resist and feel anxious about all of the changes. So, what can you do when you really need to replace your pet's sleeping space?
First off, recognize that it might not go according to plan with a quick acceptance of the new arrangement. Don't get rid of the old crate until you're sure that your dog will accept the new one. If possible, place the old crate, or part of it, inside the new crate. Don't wash the bedding from the old crate, but use it in the new space to increase the familiarity. You can wash it later once they've accepted the new space as home. You can even try placing the old crate facing the new crate and gradually make the old crate less appealing by moving the bedding to the new space and adding a spacer or block to make the old crate less inviting as it seems to be shrinking in size. If your dog still resists the new crate, try feeding them their meals solely in the new crate. Give them puzzles to solve in there as well. Treats should be given only for using the new crate; the longer they remain in the crate, additional rewards can come. All of this should be done without a door on the new accommodations. After they will willingly eat in the new crate, and wait there calmly for treats, you can begin experimenting with having the door on the crate but left open, and then build up to door on the crate and closed.
Finally, some dogs benefit from the use of DAP, dog appeasing pheromones, sprayed inside and around the new crate. These pheromones mimic the smell of a nursing mother dog. A couple of brands to consider are Adaptil (it's been the around the longest and is the best researched) and Zenidog, also a well-researched product. Adaptil has the advantage of being available in a spray as well as a plug-in diffuser, while Zenidog doesn't have the spray, just the diffuser. Diffusers are great if the crate is located in a small space such as the corner of a room. If the crate is more centrally located in a room, or part of a much larger space, diffusers aren't going to be as useful as the spray that can be used directly in the crate's location.
It's also true that if your pet already has anxiety, whether that is separation anxiety, generalized anxiety, noise sensitivities, or some other issue related to anxiety, any changes you make to their world will likely take an adjustment period. How long that adjustment will be really depends on how your pet has coped with previous changes. If it took weeks for them to adapt to the new couch or they resisted a new diet for almost a month when you had to change their food, then it's likely that the new crate will take at least that long if not longer given the importance of that crate to their psychological well-being. We train our dogs to see their crates as their dens and safe-havens, a place to hole up when they are tired, to decompress when they are anxious, and to recharge when they are overwhelmed. If we are changing that space, we can absolutely expect some resistance. Hopefully, by making the change gradual, using the crate in crate method, when possible, utilizing old bedding, feeding and rewarding them there, you can eventually get your dog to accept their new accommodations, albeit begrudgingly at first. Definitely figure in extra time to make that adjustment if your pet has issues in anxiety already. This doesn't mean you should never change anything in your dog's world, or never make changes for an anxious pet. It simply means you need to be aware of how they will perceive those changes. Dogs are territorial, so changing their beds, couches, chairs, or crates takes an adjustment period. The more things stay the same, the easier those transitions can be, meaning if you can replace a worn bed with the exact same style, or replace the dirty, dilapidated crate with the same style, the more likely your dog will accept the change. When you change multiple things all at once, a new crate of a different style, for example, resistance by your dog is to be expected. Time to break out the good treats and start working on ways to make that new crate a positive for them just as the purchase was a positive for you.
As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.
Wednesday, January 7, 2026
Have Some Fun During Train Your Dog Month!
Wednesday, December 31, 2025
A Catalyst for Conversations
Wednesday, December 24, 2025
Holiday Apple Pie for Dogs!
Wednesday, December 17, 2025
Your Dog's Wishlist for Santa!
There used to be this television ad that ran during the holidays when I was a kid. It was for the ASPCA and it basically showed sad dogs, shivering in the cold and the voice-over stated that all dogs wanted for the holidays was a warm bed and home to call their own. That ad always got to me, but when it popped into my head today, I realized how many more things dogs really want. So, let's have some fun with this. I'll give you the top five things I think dogs would put on their holiday wish list, if they could write! Then, you can share in the comments what you think your dog would ask for from Santa. Here goes:
1. Walks filled with sniffs and exploring opportunities. Most of the dogs I see aren't getting in enough sniffing time on their walks. Owners and dog walkers seem rushed, eager to get their step count or move on to the next thing on their to-do list. This rush to get the walk done robs dogs of the chance to sniff and explore. Given that most dogs only get out for free time when they are on a leash, this means that they are really getting short-changed. Dogs need time to sniff as it releases tension and stress and allows them to gather information about their surroundings and all the other animals and people there. Slow down, let them sniff, and don't rush your walks!
2. A variety of chewing options. Dogs need to chew. Their mouths are designed for it. They have strong jaw muscles made for gnawing on tough items. While many vets caution the use of real bones for dogs for fear that they may splinter, create a blockage, or break teeth, there are plenty of other chewing options available. There are edible marrow bones, dental chews, bullysticks, collagen bones, yak cheese, etc. Chewing on bone-like items stimulates the production of saliva, massages a dog's gums, and can even help remove plaque from their teeth. If you are concerned about the safety of a bone or other hardcore chewing option for your dog, talk to your vet. They can assess your dog's dental health and make recommendations on the best chewing options for your particular canine companion.
3. Puzzles and interactive toys. Every dog needs mental stimulation. Walks, a game of fetch, and relieving themselves in the yard aren't enough. Dogs are very smart, capable animals. They co-evolved with humans who relied on their keen senses to locate and kill prey. Dogs like to solve problems, especially if that problem helps them find something to eat. Snuffle mats, snuffle balls, lick mats, and all of the wonderful puzzle toys from Outward Hound (they bought all of Nina Ottosson's designs) and Trixie (they actually make puzzles for cats too!) are good options for your dogs. Having more than one puzzle means being able to rotate what you give to your dog, increasing their interest in solving the problem.
4. A job. The job your dog will enjoy most depends on their breed, age, and interests. Herding dog like to herd, sure, but a lot of them also enjoy agility and flyball. Retrievers also enjoy agility and flyball, but you can likely add in water sports like dock diving for them as well. Terriers and Dachshunds like to run and dig and can often be found enjoying nose work as well as faster paced sports like flyball. Most dogs enjoy rally and that's a great sport for senior dogs too. Experiment with different classes or sports and figure out what your dog enjoys the most, which might not necessarily be what you enjoy the most, and that's okay. This is a job for them, not for you!
5. The ability to enjoy their on-leash time free of fear or pain. When you are choosing the style of collar or harness for your dog, give some real thought to how that device will feel when they are wearing it. Collars, harnesses, and leashes are all items designed to keep dogs safe. Pick one that does that without also causing your dog pain in the process. If your dog pulls on leash, don't immediately think you must need a pinch collar. Instead, consider whether a harness like those from 2Hounds might better keep your dog from pulling while not using pain to get them to comply.
I'm looking forward to reading your dog's wish list for Santa! Ozzie, Henley, and Zelly are all hoping for some new puzzles this year. Pretty sure I'll be able to help Santa with that.
As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.
Wednesday, December 10, 2025
Helpful Holiday Strategies
Hanukkah is fast approaching (beginning on December 14 this year) and Christmas is just two weeks away as well. A lot of my clients are feeling the pressure already to get everything done and make everything perfect for their friends, families, and loved ones. I get it. I like to get my Christmas tree up early and my house decorated so I can enjoy the festivities as long as possible. But putting up a tree and decorations, and wrapping presents, with big dogs underfoot? Not an easy task. I like to think my dogs are well-behaved. They know what they are supposed to be doing and what is off limits. The holidays, however, bring so many temptations, that even my dogs can get into a little trouble, landing them on Santa's naughty list, on occasion. I have put together some strategies that work for me to keep mishaps and shenanigans to a minimum, thus reducing my holiday stress and ensuring that we all have a good time.
1. Don't put away those crates, pens, and gates just yet. Just because your puppy is all grown up, or you have adult dogs who've not needed confinement in years, using those options during the holidays can be a game changer. Need your dogs to stay out of the kitchen while you are preparing food? Put up that gate. Need your dog to stay away from the tree? Put up a pen around it. Need your dog to stop rushing the door as people come and go? Put them in their crate with something fun to do, or inside that exercise pen. While I agree that gates and pens aren't all that attractive, they get the job done by creating obvious, enforceable boundaries for our dogs. The bottom line is this: You can absolutely teach your dog to stay out of the kitchen, away from the tree, and not to bolt out the front door, but two weeks before the holidays is not the time to be doing that training. You'll be stressed out, your dog will be anxious about getting it right, and no one will have a good time. Embrace the gates and pens and decorate them with some garland as well!
2. Plan ahead. Let your dog check out that tree before you add lights and ornaments. If they get in some good sniffs in advance, they'll be less likely to dive into it when you bring it indoors and start decorating. Don't put anything but plain water into the tree stand and clean up fallen needles regularly as they can cause stomach upset. You don't want them drinking from there at all, but best to make sure that if they sneak a sip, it's just water. Only put non-breakable, non-toxic, durable ornaments down low. You can expect your puppy to pull down at least one ornament, so let's make sure no one gets hurt!
3. Limit risk of exposure to poisons and toxins. I love poinsettias, mistletoe, holly, and amaryllis, but if someone brings them to my house as a gift, they immediately get placed strategically somewhere the dogs can't reach them and where any falling petals, needles, leaves, or berries won't land where curiosity might get the best of my dog friends. If you are wrapping up edible treats like candy, cookies, etc. don't put them under your tree; leave those wrapped gifts up on a table or in a closet and bring them out when it's time for unwrapping. And if you wrap presents for your dogs like I do, those gifts should stay safely tucked away until Christmas morning!
4. Don't tempt them unnecessarily. My dogs are great at not touching plates, bowls, glasses, etc. on low tables as it's something we've practiced since they were puppies. However, I don't tempt fate by walking away from plates piled high with novel holiday goodies and cups filled with yummy smelling beverages. Dogs can be tethered, crated, penned, or kept behind a gate safe and sound. Don't relegate your dogs to a part of your house away from all of the fun and activities, however. Instead, keep them where they can safely see and participate without risk of over-indulging or intoxication. One exception to this is if you have a very fearful, aggressive, or overly protective dog. Dogs who are afraid of new people and new experiences, or those who will aggressively defend and protect their owners or their homes from visitors should be confined away from the holiday activities. Confinement is not punishment, so don't feel guilty or ashamed about doing so. You are protecting your guests, reducing your liability, and giving your dog some peace of mind. Check on them regularly, give them bathroom breaks, and make sure you leave them things to do during their necessary confinement.
5. Maintain your usual schedule as much as possible. For some of my clients, it's hard enough to maintain a regular schedule during the rest of the year, let alone during the hectic holiday season, however doing so reaps its own rewards. Dogs are creatures of habit, deriving pleasure and satisfaction from eating, walking, playing, and exploring at the same times every day. If you deviate too far from their normal routine, you risk creating avoidable stress and anxiety. Instead, make every effort to feed them on time, get those walks in (that exercise is good for you too), and don't forget to play. Play is nature's stress-buster, so don't skip out on that game of fetch or tug-of-war.
6. Don't make excuses. You have dogs because you love them. Having dogs means regularly dealing with water dripped on the floor, hair and fur on the furniture, dirt on the carpets, and occasionally, urine, feces, and vomit in random places as well. That's life with pets, so don't apologize for it! If guests in your home "aren't dog people," that's on them. They are visiting you at your house; you can make minor accommodations as mentioned above with those crates, gates, and pens, but they need to remember that you share your home with dogs whom you love very much. Loving you means loving (or at the very least tolerating) your dogs. That doesn't mean you won't still do your best to make sure your canine companions are on their best behavior and looking (and smelling!) their best. We all like to put our best face and foot forward during the holidays and your dogs want that approval and adoration too.
As always, if you have questions about your pet's behavior, you know where to find me.






